420

Definition: Is a code word used for marijuana smokers. You may see 420 Friendly posted on Swingers Profiles which would mean they are ok with people that smoke marijuana.

ADULT

Definition: Euphemism for pornographic.

ANAL

Definition: Anal intercourse; Greek; Greek Culture.

ARTS

Definition: Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures

B&D

Definition: Bondage and discipline

BAREBACK

Definition: Refers to sex without a condom.

BEAR

Definition: A large male homo sexual, often very hairy.

BI CURIOUS

Definition: Is a hotly debated term. Sometimes used bi men or women that have never had a bi experience and are willing to or wanting to try it.

BI SEXUAL

Definition: Refers to a person that has sex with both male and female partners.

BIZARRE

Definition: Unusual sexual desires

BONDAGE

Definition: A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. the person doing the binding is considered “dominant” while the person being bound is considered “submissive.”

BUKAKKE

Definition: A fetish where a girl, or girls, occasionally a guy, lies naked and lets, or helps guys masturbate and ejaculate over their naked bodies.

BULL

Definition: Male who is used by couples to impregnate the female/

CAN ACCOMMODATE

Definition: Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging.

CAN TRAVEL

Definition: Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing.

CANING

Definition: A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood.

Certified SWINGERS

Definition: In the swingers personals world this generally means that the swinger profile you are viewing has another member vouching for them as real swingers.

CHEATING

Definition: Sexual activity with others without spouse’s knowledge and/or consent.

CLEAN / HYGIENIC

Definition: Free of sexually transmitted diseases.

CLOSED DOOR or CLOSED SWINGING

Definition: Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms so that partners of a marriage or other intimate relationship do not visually observe each other’s swinging. the rooms are almost ways in the same house/hotel.

CLOSET SWINGER

Definition: A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger.

CONDOMS A MUST

Definition: If you see this in a swingers personal add this means the swing Site member only will have sex with condoms.

COUGAR

Definition: A woman over 40 who likes younger men for sex.

COUPLE

Definition: a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes.

CREAMPIE CLEANUP

Definition: The act of removing sperm from a girls (or mans) body by licking.

CREAMPIES

Definition: Sperm left in or on a girls body.

CUCKOLD

Definition: a man whose wife is having sex with other men, often while he is either made to stay home and wait, or is forced to watch.

CULTURE

Definition: Euphemism for Fetish, Arts.

CUNNILINGUS

Definition: Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth

DILDO

Definition: An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus.

DIRECTOR

Definition: the term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a Manager.

DISCIPLINE

Definition: A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings.

DISCREET OR DISCRETION

Definition: Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity

DISCREET

Definition: The swinging world sometimes comes with pitfalls for those with very public lives. If you come across a member that has this in their profile they are very private about their swinging activities and want you to be as well when contacting them.

DOCILE

Definition: Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline

DOMESTIC TRAINING

Definition: Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.

DOMINANT

Definition: A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner.

DP

Definition: Acronym for double penetration. This refers to simultaneous anal and vaginal sex. See also VDP.

DRAMA FREE

Definition: This is used to indicate a couple or single that is comfortable in the lifestyle and free of jealousy and bickering.

DRAMA

Definition: Generally applies to swingers that are not ready for or should not be in the lifestyle. This refers to their jealousy and fighting whilst out with other swingers.

EXHIBITIONIST

Definition: A person who is sexually stimulated by being seen or watched by others while showing sexual portions of the body or engaging in sexual acts.

FAMILY FIRST

Definition: If you come across this term when reading a lifestyle couples personal add the couple may have children or a family situation that makes it hard to drop everything and get out for fun. Couples that post this in their swingers profile usually will need a little more notice to make plans.

FELLATIO

Definition: Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.

FETISH

Definition: Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy.

FLAGELLATION

Definition: Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking

FRENCH CULTURE

Definition: Oral sex

FULL SWAP

Definition: A couple that is willing to switch partners with another couple and have sex including penetration.

FUN AND GAMES

Definition: Euphemism for sexual activity.

GANGBANG

Definition: This is when a women has sex with multiple male partners at the same time. The women being the center of attraction.

GAY

Definition: A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian.

GREEDY GIRL

Definition: A girl/woman who likes sex with groups of men

GREEK CULTURE

Definition: Anal sex

GROUP ROOM

Definition: Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US

GROUP SEX

Definition: Sexual activity between three or more people.

HALL PASS

Definition: Is a term used by swingers to let others know that the couple is allowing one or both members to have sex without their significant other. Sometimes meaning the couple is willing to set up one on one sexual dates with other singles.

HARD CORE

Definition: A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected.

HEAD

Definition: Oral-genital sexual activity; “Giving head”

HEDONIST

Definition: Someone who lives for pleasure.

HETEROSEXUAL

Definition: Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.

HOMOSEXUAL

Definition: Sexual attraction to members of the same sex.

HORNY

Definition: Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure

HOTWIFE

Definition: A woman who goes out and has sex with other men, then returns home to fuck her husband while telling him about her adventures.

HUNG

Definition: Refers to a man with a large penis.

INDOOR SPORTS

Definition: Swinging activities in general.

INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP

Definition: Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values.

LEATHER

Definition: A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing of leather garments.

LESBIAN

Definition: A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women.

LIFESTYLE

Definition: Refers to the swinging lifestyle. Used in swingers personal ads as an alternative to the word swinger. Instead of saying “We are a swinging couple.” The term will be substituted as “We are a lifestyle couple.”

MARITAL AIDS

Definition: Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others.

MASOCHISM

Definition: Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others.

MASTER/SLAVE

Definition: Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship.

MATROOM

Definition: Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term

MEET FOR PLEASURE

Definition: Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity

MENAGE A” TROIS

Definition: three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. May involve an on-going emotional relationship of the participants.

MORESOMES

Definition: More than three people in a swinging interaction.

MUTUAL MASTURBATION

Definition: Refers to person that wants to masturbate in the presence of
Definition: another that is also masturbating.

NEWCOMERS

Definition: New people in swinging; First-timers

NONSMOKER

Definition: Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.

OPEN RELATIONSHIP

Definition: A couple who allow each other to have sexual partners outside their relationship.

OPEN SWINGING

Definition: A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room; (Western U S) swing party where participants socially mix and are free to swing as couples, in one-to-one pairings and group sex during the progress of the party

ORGY

Definition: Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; group sex.

PARTY CLOTHES

Definition: Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. the latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play.

PARTY

Definition: Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.

PASSIVE

Definition: Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging.

PHOTO

Definition: Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others.

PHOTOGRAPHY

Definition: Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs.

PRO

Definition: Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.

PLAY

Definition: A term used for sex in the lifestyle. Instead of saying “We would love o meet for drinks and see if it leads to sex.” You may see “We would love to meet for drinks and play later.”

RECREATIONAL SWINGER

Definition: A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion with no desire for emotional attachment.

RESTRAINT

Definition: Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.

ROMAN CULTURE

Definition: Sexual orgies

ROMAN

Definition: Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc

RUBBER

Definition: Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with BDSM.

S&M

Definition: Sadism and Masochism

SAFE

Definition: Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy

SAME ROOM

Definition: Refers to a couple that is comfortable with swapping partners with another couple but only in the same room. They wish to stay together while having sex with others.

SINGLE

Definition: A swinger without a partner, single or married.

SOCIAL

Definition: A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. there is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social.

SOCIAL SWING CLUB

Definition: A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. they may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important.

SOFT SWAPPING

Definition: Is another hotly debated term. The best definition and most universal means there is to be no penetration outside of one’s own partner. Vaginal and anal sex with another’s partner is generally not allowed with soft swap couples. Touching, kissing along with mutual masturbation and oral sex are mostly referred to by soft swap couples.

STD: SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE

Definition: A term developed in the late 1970’s to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem.

STR or STR8 or STRAIGHT

Definition: Any person who is not interested in same sex sexual activity or A person who does not use drugs.

SWAPPING

Definition: In the lifestyle or swinging community this refers to switching partners with another couple.

SWEDISH CULTURE

Definition: Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another

SWING MAGAZINE

Definition: A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community

SWINGING LIFESTYLE

Definition: Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships.

SWINGING MARRIAGE

Definition: Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals.

SWINGING

Definition: Social-sexual relational recreation among men and women. It is a couple oriented activity but single men and women sometimes are involved.

THREESOME

Definition: three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. Not the same as a “menage a” trois” in that the latter may involve emotional involvement and a continuing relationship.

TICKET

Definition: A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. the ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing.

TRIAD

Definition: Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome.

TRIOLISM

Definition: Used in personal ads to indicate desire for “threesomes”. this is a common but confusing usag

TUBAL LIGATION

Definition: Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation.

TWINK

Definition: Young, attractive male homosexual

UNICORN

Definition: Nickname for the almost mythical creature – A single female looking for males or couples.

UTOPIAN SWINGER

Definition: A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals.

V SAFE

Definition: Refers to a male that has had a vasectomy

VASECTOMY

Definition: Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to make a man infertile.

VERSATILE

Definition: Bisexual.

VIBRATOR

Definition: Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another.

VOLUPTUOUS

Definition: Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips.

VOYEUR

Definition: A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts.