Definition: A large male homo sexual, often very hairy.
Definition: Is a hotly debated term. Sometimes used bi men or women that have never had a bi experience and are willing to or wanting to try it.
Definition: Refers to a person that has sex with both male and female partners.
Definition: Unusual sexual desires
Definition: A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. the person doing the binding is considered “dominant” while the person being bound is considered “submissive.”
Definition: A fetish where a girl, or girls, occasionally a guy, lies naked and lets, or helps guys masturbate and ejaculate over their naked bodies.
Definition: Male who is used by couples to impregnate the female/
Definition: Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging.
Definition: Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing.
Definition: A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood.
Definition: In the swingers personals world this generally means that the swinger profile you are viewing has another member vouching for them as real swingers.
Definition: Sexual activity with others without spouse’s knowledge and/or consent.
CLEAN / HYGIENIC
Definition: Free of sexually transmitted diseases.
CLOSED DOOR or CLOSED SWINGING
Definition: Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms so that partners of a marriage or other intimate relationship do not visually observe each other’s swinging. the rooms are almost ways in the same house/hotel.
Definition: A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger.
CONDOMS A MUST
Definition: If you see this in a swingers personal add this means the swing Site member only will have sex with condoms.
Definition: A woman over 40 who likes younger men for sex.
Definition: a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes.
Definition: The act of removing sperm from a girls (or mans) body by licking.
Definition: Sperm left in or on a girls body.
Definition: a man whose wife is having sex with other men, often while he is either made to stay home and wait, or is forced to watch.
Definition: Euphemism for Fetish, Arts.
Definition: Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth
Definition: An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus.
Definition: the term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a Manager.
Definition: A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings.
DISCREET OR DISCRETION
Definition: Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity
Definition: The swinging world sometimes comes with pitfalls for those with very public lives. If you come across a member that has this in their profile they are very private about their swinging activities and want you to be as well when contacting them.
Definition: Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline
Definition: Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.
Definition: A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner.
Definition: Acronym for double penetration. This refers to simultaneous anal and vaginal sex. See also VDP.
Definition: This is used to indicate a couple or single that is comfortable in the lifestyle and free of jealousy and bickering.
Definition: Generally applies to swingers that are not ready for or should not be in the lifestyle. This refers to their jealousy and fighting whilst out with other swingers.
Definition: A person who is sexually stimulated by being seen or watched by others while showing sexual portions of the body or engaging in sexual acts.
Definition: If you come across this term when reading a lifestyle couples personal add the couple may have children or a family situation that makes it hard to drop everything and get out for fun. Couples that post this in their swingers profile usually will need a little more notice to make plans.
Definition: Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.
Definition: Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy.
Definition: Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking
Definition: Oral sex
Definition: A couple that is willing to switch partners with another couple and have sex including penetration.
FUN AND GAMES
Definition: Euphemism for sexual activity.
Definition: This is when a women has sex with multiple male partners at the same time. The women being the center of attraction.
Definition: A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian.
Definition: A girl/woman who likes sex with groups of men
Definition: Anal sex
Definition: Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US
Definition: Sexual activity between three or more people.
Definition: Is a term used by swingers to let others know that the couple is allowing one or both members to have sex without their significant other. Sometimes meaning the couple is willing to set up one on one sexual dates with other singles.
Definition: A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected.
Definition: Oral-genital sexual activity; “Giving head”
Definition: Someone who lives for pleasure.
Definition: Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.
Definition: Sexual attraction to members of the same sex.
Definition: Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure
Definition: A woman who goes out and has sex with other men, then returns home to fuck her husband while telling him about her adventures.
Definition: Refers to a man with a large penis.
Definition: Swinging activities in general.
INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP
Definition: Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values.
Definition: A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing of leather garments.
Definition: A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women.
Definition: Refers to the swinging lifestyle. Used in swingers personal ads as an alternative to the word swinger. Instead of saying “We are a swinging couple.” The term will be substituted as “We are a lifestyle couple.”
Definition: Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others.
Definition: Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others.
Definition: Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship.
Definition: Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term
MEET FOR PLEASURE
Definition: Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity
MENAGE A” TROIS
Definition: three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. May involve an on-going emotional relationship of the participants.
Definition: More than three people in a swinging interaction.
Definition: Refers to person that wants to masturbate in the presence of
Definition: another that is also masturbating.
Definition: New people in swinging; First-timers
Definition: Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.
Definition: A couple who allow each other to have sexual partners outside their relationship.
Definition: A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room; (Western U S) swing party where participants socially mix and are free to swing as couples, in one-to-one pairings and group sex during the progress of the party
Definition: Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; group sex.
Definition: Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. the latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play.
Definition: Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.
Definition: Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging.
Definition: Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others.
Definition: Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs.
Definition: Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.
Definition: A term used for sex in the lifestyle. Instead of saying “We would love o meet for drinks and see if it leads to sex.” You may see “We would love to meet for drinks and play later.”
Definition: A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion with no desire for emotional attachment.
Definition: Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.
Definition: Sexual orgies
Definition: Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc
Definition: Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with BDSM.
Definition: Sadism and Masochism
Definition: Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy
Definition: Refers to a couple that is comfortable with swapping partners with another couple but only in the same room. They wish to stay together while having sex with others.
Definition: A swinger without a partner, single or married.
Definition: A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. there is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social.
SOCIAL SWING CLUB
Definition: A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. they may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important.
Definition: Is another hotly debated term. The best definition and most universal means there is to be no penetration outside of one’s own partner. Vaginal and anal sex with another’s partner is generally not allowed with soft swap couples. Touching, kissing along with mutual masturbation and oral sex are mostly referred to by soft swap couples.
STD: SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE
Definition: A term developed in the late 1970’s to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem.
STR or STR8 or STRAIGHT
Definition: Any person who is not interested in same sex sexual activity or A person who does not use drugs.
Definition: In the lifestyle or swinging community this refers to switching partners with another couple.
Definition: Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another
Definition: A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community
Definition: Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships.
Definition: Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals.
Definition: Social-sexual relational recreation among men and women. It is a couple oriented activity but single men and women sometimes are involved.
Definition: three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. Not the same as a “menage a” trois” in that the latter may involve emotional involvement and a continuing relationship.
Definition: A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. the ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing.
Definition: Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome.
Definition: Used in personal ads to indicate desire for “threesomes”. this is a common but confusing usag
Definition: Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation.
Definition: Young, attractive male homosexual
Definition: Nickname for the almost mythical creature – A single female looking for males or couples.
Definition: A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals.
Definition: Refers to a male that has had a vasectomy
Definition: Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to make a man infertile.
Definition: Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another.
Definition: Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips.
Definition: A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts.